The Oscars 2018

Another Oscar show is over and my big takeaway was yellow.  Eiza Gonzalez wore the most gorgeous Ralph Lauren yellow dress and I know just what you are thinking: who is she? It turns out that was the most asked question of the night.  Apparently she is a Mexican actress who is no longer a stranger in the US because of that dress and the fact that she is drop dead gorgeous.  This is the best example of why fashion matters: the first impression can be very important. Before she walked down that red carpet, few people knew who she was. Fifteen minutes later, her life had changed. (It is possible that she was already world famous but I had never heard or seen her before. How about you?)

I think the second most asked question was: what did Mira Sorvino do to her face? Because she doesn’t look like Mira Sorvino anymore.  She should have gone to Jane Fonda’s doctor.  And speaking of Jane Fonda, a woman that is 80ish who has had more than one facelift, if she wasn’t famous, you would never guess her age.  And for once she wore a gorgeous dress.  I mean, really, she looked amazing.  Having said that, I got an email from one of you gorgeous women out there reading this, who had a very different take on how she looked.  She thinks that Jane Fonda looked frozen and portrayed an anti feminist message that tells women if we are not young and beautiful and thin, we are not worthy. I have given that a lot of thought the last few days.  On the one hand, at some point don’t we have to age gracefully and accept the fact we are not twenty anymore?  On the other hand, when your job demands that you look a certain way, isn’t all that time and expense given to image part of doing your work? Discuss.  It  is a risk to have a facelift as many actresses have actually ruined their careers because of bad plastic surgery.  Seen Melanie Griffith or Meg Ryan in a movie lately? Or Mira Sorvino? Some of that I am sure is the lack of roles for women of a certain age but there are some roles available and they are not going to them.  And they are wonderful actresses.


Speaking of aging gracefully, wasn’t Eva Marie Saint fabulous?

Nicole Kidman’s dress has received a lot of conversation.  I LOVED the color but the front of the dress was something that only she could pull off.  On anyone else, well, I don’t even want to contemplate it.

My favorite black dress was worn by Leslie Bibb who is another actress I have never heard of, but she was there with her boyfriend Sam Rockwell. She is gorgeous and her dress was too.  It was by J. Mendel and I know, the picture is terrible. (I cannot use pictures off the internet as they are copyrighted and I don’t want to go to jail for lifting a copyrighted picture! And I do not look that good in some oranges.

I loved that Rita Moreno wore her dress that she wore when she won her Oscar.  I had the lovely opportunity to meet her once and she is tiny but she somehow manages to fill the room with her outgoing personality.  She is incredibly nice and down to earth.  I loved Jennifer Garner’s whole look.  Very movie star.  Liked her dress, didn’t love it but she looked beautiful.  Oh yeah, because she is.  Viola Davis looked fantastic.  I loved her hot pink dress, her hair and earrings were gorgeous and she just looked incredible. Lupita Nyong’o looked her usual amazing self in an equally gorgeous Versace dress.  I mean, her style, is always perfect and her skin.  I don’t even want to talk about it.

My Oscar for best dress worn by a mom goes to Margot Robbie’s mother and Margot’s dress was one of the beautiful white dresses.  Jennifer Lawrence and Gal Gadot win for best metallic dresses but not Sandra Bullock.  Although I do love her.  Her asking the lighting director to dim the lights to age 35 was very funny.
Whoopie, oh Whoopie, you should just wear sweats.  Octavia Spencer’s dark green dress was beautiful and she looked so pretty.  I am getting a little sick of the slit dresses that some women were wearing so they can stick their leg out like Angelina did, I don’t know, ten years ago?  Ok, maybe less, but I am over it.

I am so glad Allison Janney won.  I mean CJ!!!! And Frances McDormand won for best speech by far.  She is a great actress.  She always does an amazing job just like our bestie Meryl.  I think Meryl should insist on sitting in the last row so that the Meryl jokes will stop.  Her poor husband looked pained.  Their children gave him an Oscar for going to the ceremony for 40 years which I thought was very funny. She looked very pretty but you know I set the bar for her so low because like everyone else, I love her so much. She just has to show up.  So I can listen to people making her a running joke.

There were very few dresses I didn’t like.  One was the Grecian dress Zendaya wore. She is only 21 and she managed to look about 91. And I didn’t like Emma Stone’s outfit.  It wasn’t Oscar worthy but she is so pretty.  And really talented.


Usually my favorite accessory is George Clooney but he wasn’t there this year, sadly.  I loved Allison Janney’s diamond necklace, and Viola Davis’ earrings, but my favorite accessory didn’t become apparent until Thursday night when Kobe Bryant appeared on Jimmy Kimmel, and he was given a Laker’s jersey for his Oscar.  That could be a whole new business: Oscar clothes for your Oscar.  They could change it three times a day like the hosts do!

Well, that does it.  Another year, another Oscar, another year of saying we WILL do our arm exercises even though we all know we won’t.  Well some of you do. But not me.  If only good intentions could firm them up I would be golden just like Oscar!

Feel free to comment and I look forward to the next award season.

Ricki